29,Capricorn,Caucasian but ghetto (as in lower income). I've been around awhile. My usual response to those that shun me for my age is "29 isn't really ancient and if you hate me just for being older that's ridiculous!"
By the way Devilry friends who fuck is a great set up. Lucky you. I always got stuck as the plutonic friend girls used as a shoulder to cry on until I let it be known I had enough of that.
All I can say is men with morals crave sex just as much as men without them and if I feel like I'm not getting equal opportunities I end up withdrawing.
Selfish? I don't think so. More like self preservation and refusing to be a martyr for a lost cause.